The difference is about what comes after “sorry” and what you’re apologizing for.

 
1. Sorry for → apology about a thing / action / mistake

Use sorry for before:

• a noun
• a gerund (verb + -ing)

It focuses on the reason for the apology.

Examples:

• I’m sorry for the delay.
• I’m sorry for being late.
• She’s sorry for what she said.

👉 Think: “This is the thing I regret.”

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2. Sorry to → apology about doing or saying something, often bad news

Use sorry to before:

• a verb (V1)

It’s often used when:

• giving bad news
• expressing regret about an action or statement

Examples:

• I’m sorry to hear that.
• I’m sorry to tell you the meeting is canceled.
• I’m sorry to say I was wrong.

👉 Think: “I regret having to do/say this.”

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Key difference in feeling

Phrase	Focus	Example	Feeling
sorry for	Past action / mistake	Sorry for breaking it	Taking responsibility
sorry to	Action / message	Sorry to tell you	Polite, formal, gentle

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Common mistake to avoid

❌ Sorry to being late
✅ Sorry for being late

❌ Sorry for tell you
✅ Sorry to tell you

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Easy memory trick

• for → noun / -ing
• to → verb (base form)

Once you see what comes next in the sentence, the choice becomes automatic 👍